First of all let us have a look at how a system is defined: In Late Latin “systēma” and Greek “sýstēma” system would be defined as a whole compounded of several parts. Today’s general definition sees system as a group or combination of interrelated, interdependent, or interacting elements forming a collective entity. Given this we…

Entanglements are every kind of connexions, ties and bonds that link us up with the fates of our family members and ancestors due to unresolved issues in the past blocking energies of love and harmony and hindering us from living our lives independently and free.   Confusion happens when, without being aware of that and…

Every member of your family system has the right to belong and everyone has his/her very special own place.  ************************ Who belongs to your family system? Everyone who was ever born or conceived in a family belongs to the family system and is equal in dignity. Also who shares a common fate with someone of…

Within the family system give and take should always be in balance. This balance is upset when the giving is too much / too little or when the taking is too much / too little.  However the balance is a different one when it is about children and parents or about the romantic relationship between…

In a family constellation we can find emerging different consciences which are interconnected and operate in the service of our relationships **********************   Personal conscience The personal conscience is felt by the individual and serves our belonging to a limited group. It not only connects, but also separates excluding others who do not belong to…

“If we begin to understand what we carry for our parents, we begin to understand what our parents carried for their parents and so on – this is the moment when compassion can enter in our lives and love can start to flow again”   (U.M.Bell)   Sometimes it is really hard to be thankful –…