Dear Subscriber,
2017 is slowly coming to an end and Family Constellations Malta is offering two more events before the Christmas holidays.
One more Family Constellation Day on the 10th of December which is already fully booked.
And one more workshop on December 2nd and 3rd – “The man I am”. It is a special one, because I wanted to offer a safe space where men have the possibility to be among themselves, share and get in contact with the power of their family roots – because also what sometimes seems restrictive or problematic most of the times turns out to be exactly what gives us strength to find our own path.
So if you are a man and want to do some more steps in what it means to be YOU, don’t miss these dates. If you are a woman and have a partner, friend or brother who might be interested, please share this information. Here is the link to the event on my website “THE MAN I AM”
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The schedule for the Family Constellation Days in the first half of 2018 is published and you can find it on the event page of my website – or simply by clicking here. The first bookings for “Own constellations” in January have already come in.
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Before we start with the constellations on a Constellation Day, I have made it a habit to talk about the “Orders of Love” which are the foundation of the constellation work. There was a time when I was a bit concerned that people who frequently joined my constellation workshops might be bored by always hearing the same things.
But then I found out that actually most of them love it and are looking forward to it. They tell me that they always pick out something new or are touched by something different. I love to see the faces that all of a sudden show signs of understanding why some things are as they are in their families or their relationships.
Simply by listening mindfully and with an open heart to these few basic and eternal truths, lives start to change, because awareness rises and self-responsibility increases. We are no longer victims of the circumstances but we can be creators of a better life just by understanding, respecting and adopting these natural systemic laws, these “Orders of love” which basically teach us
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To include what is excluded and give it a place in our hearts
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To respect the fate of others
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To be aware of and take our rightful place
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To pay attention to the balance of give and take
Seems so simple, right? And yet, not being aware of or not being able to achieve this, can represent the biggest stumbling block in one’s life.
The more I am working with the “Orders of love” the more I become aware of their presence in every sphere of life. They are at work not only in our family systems, but in companies, institutions, political parties, countries. Historical events make sense seen from a systemic point of view and much of what is going on can be explained through them.
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If you are still looking for a Christmas present that can make a change in your friends’ and relatives’ lives – gift them a voucher for experiencing the “Orders of love” at work. But don’t forget to respect the others’ fate. Only if the person is open to it and really wants a change it is a real gift. If you are interested in the various possibilities, please contact me.
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So my wish for you for this pre-Christmas season is awareness of and compassion for what’s going on. May it be a peaceful time for you and may love find its place in it.
Sending you love and light
Ursula ❤